Weekend Experience


A weekend designed to transform your heart and the heart of your marriage. 

July 7-9, 2023

Indianapolis, IN

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On average, couples struggle in their marriage for six years before asking for help. As a result many couples feel isolated and embarrased by their marriage issues. 

You are not alone. There is hope for your marriage. We created this weekend experience for you.  Come as you are. Leave renewed. Leave encouraged. Leave reconnected.


This weekend will transform your heart and the heart of your marriage. 


You will grow in love, connection, and desire for your spouse, and leave with a shared vision for your marriage.   


The Weekend Experience is a small, intimate environment created to help you rediscover your heart for God, repair or grow your love for your spouse and recapture the vision for your marriage.

You will receive a weekend of fresh content, rich interaction with Justin and Trisha, and transformative discussions with your spouse. 

Each Weekend Experience is limited to 10 couples. Question and answer sessions, shared meals, and informal social times will foster a unique marriage weekend environment.

This weekend is about you. You can share your story as much or as little as you choose. There are no group sessions, only teaching and discussions with you and your spouse. 

I Need This

A personal invite from Justin and Trish



My wife Jen and I came on one of your marriage weekends in 2015. I reached out because I was a pastor, and my marriage was a mess. My wife and I didn’t know what to do or where to turn. So I emailed you and said, “HELP,” and you responded almost instantly.

That weekend for my wife and I was the beginning of what we refer to as our restoration journey and set us on a path to not only restore our marriage but our relationship with God as well. It was so impactful that we felt God leading me to step down from my pastoral role three years ago and launch Restoration Family Farm. We are a ministry that comes alongside individuals, couples, and families in difficult seasons of life and walks with them through their restoration journey. We do that through marriage retreats, like yours, training, and counseling.

As I reflect over the past year, I can’t help but have a heart full of gratitude for you and Trish and what you did to help us find hope and healing. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for investing in us and walking with us on our journey. We would not be where we are if it weren’t for you two!

Rob Schwinge

The RefineUs Weekend Experience is an environment to give you the tools you need to transform your marriage. You can expect to receive heartfelt teaching on marriage principles from God’s word and the time and space to process the sessions with your spouse.


Who Should Attend

  • Couples that desire changein their marriage.
  • Couples in or coming out of crisis.
  • Couples that want to have an extraordinary marriage.
  • Couples that would like a small intimate environment to spend time with God and each other
  • Couples ready to move past what's holding them back. 

We Will Help You

  • Rediscover God’s vision for your marriage
  • Identify obstacles keeping you from living out that vision
  • Learn the impact of past experiences on your present struggles
  • Heal relational hurts
  • Resolve Conflict
  • Restore Trust
  • Address resentment issues and learn to forgive

Included with Registration:

  • Catered dinner on Friday evening
  • Breakfast and catered lunch on Saturday
  • Restaurant Breakfast on Sunday
  • Drinks and snacks throughout the weekend
  • A signed copy of Beyond Ordinary
  • A conference notebook with session notes, questions and information

Not Included: 

    • Travel or hotel accomodations

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Weekend Experience:


Per Couple

  • Shared meals through out the weekend
  • Insightful and practical content from Justin and Trisha Davis
  • Experience Notebook with outlines, discussion questions and next steps
  • A signed copy of Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn't Good Enough
  • A time for Q&A and discussion that will help you apply the content. 
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Premium Weekend: Weekend Experience + 4 Coaching Sessions


Per Couple

  • Everything that is included in the Weekend Package. 
  • 4 Coaching sessions ($1000 value) that will take place monthly following the weekend. 
  • MentorUs: 52 Week Marriage Devotional
  • IgniteUs: 21 Days to an Extraordinary Marriage
  • RefineUs Weekend in digital format. Go back and revisit all the content
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Early Bird Rate: Save $100 when you register before May 1, 2023: 

Use the code: EARLYBIRD at checkout to save $100 

Justin and Trisha Davis know all too well the dangers of settling for an ordinary marriage. Their own failure to recognize the warning signs almost resulted in the end of their marriage, their family, and their ministry.

Justin and Trisha are bloggers, authors, speakers and founders of RefineUs Ministries. Sharing their story of pain, loss and redemption, RefineUs is igniting a movement to build healthy marriages and families.

They are the co-authors of the best-selling book, Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn’t Good Enough, published by Tyndale House Publishers.

The Davises created the RefineUs Weekend Experience to help couples go beyond behavior modification in their marriage and truly experience heart transformation; both personally and as a couple.

Friday Night


6 PM Arrive and Check-in

6:30 PM Dinner on-site

7:00PM Session #1

7:45PM Discussion Time

8:00PM Break

8:15PM Session #2

9:00PM Discussion

9:15PM Dismiss


9:00AM Breakfast on-site

9:30AM Session #3

10:15AM Discussion

10:30AM Session #4

11:15AM Discussion

11:30AM Special Guest

12:00PM Lunch on-site

12:30PM Session #5

1:30PM Discussion 

2 PM Dismiss to Date Night



9:00AM Breakfast off site

11 AM Dismiss


Location and Accommodations


The Conference will be held at the Nexus Event Center on the north side of Indianapolis. 

Nexus is 20 minutes from downtown Indianapolis, 5 minutes from Carmel, 5 minutes from Zionsville and surrounded by hotels and restaurants. 



Weekend Experience $995 per couple 

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Premium Weekend Experience $1499 per couple

(includes 4 follow-up coaching sessions) 
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Matt and Bonnie Goodwin

The RefineUs Weekend Experience was better than we had even expected. It became a new foundation for our marriage, a springboard to push us further down the path of healing we needed. It was like a reset button that broke down pretenses through the raw and real testimonies and teachings shared. We are so thankful for this opportunity like none other!

Chuck and Wendy Williams

The weekend was incredible.  Your insights into marriage and relationships truly helped us understand that this is not just your story, but the story of most married couples today. The tools that you have provided are helping Wendy and I to deal with the hidden issues in our relationship; understand the importance of intimacy; connect spiritually; and navigate the wounds of our past. Thank you again for your openness, dedication, and the tools that you are providing to help married couples move their relationship to move Beyond Ordinary. 

Jim and Jen Mace  

We are so thankful we had the opportunity to attend the RefineUs Weekend Experience. Justin & Trisha went above and beyond making sure we felt welcome and comfortable. They spoke with honesty and vulnerability about their life which was the encouragement we needed as we move forward. The principles they shared with us gave us a deeper understanding of God's vision for our marriage and the redemption He has for us. We were able to be "just as we are" and allow God to change our hearts. We left the weekend with a new hope for the future... seeking God first and then each other.