On average, couples struggle in their marriage for six years before asking for help.
Poor communication, score keeping, walking on eggshells and broken-trust permeate a lot of marriages.
These marriage challenges cause a lot of couples to feel isolated and embarrassed.
You are not alone. Your marriage isn't too broken to find healing. You could be one weekend away from changing everything!
We created this three-day experience for couples just like you.
Join us in an intimate environment in the heart of Nashville, Tennessee, to help you rediscover your heart for God, grow your love for your spouse, and recapture the vision for your marriage.
Hosted by Justin & Trisha Davis of RefineUs Ministries, this curated weekend experience will feature fresh and practical marriage teaching, rich interaction with Justin and Trisha, and transformative discussions with your spouse.
Additionally, shared meals, Q&A sessions, and informal social times will foster a unique context of both fun and rich marital growth.
Set in the beautiful boutique Virgin Hotel of Nashville, our weekend begins with dinner together on Friday and concludes with a shared breakfast on Sunday morning.
Saturday afternoon and evening, you'll have free time to explore Music City and take in the sights of all Nashville offers.Sign Me Up!
Hi, We're Justin & Trisha,
and we know all too well the dangers of settling for an ordinary marriage. Our failure to recognize the warning signs almost resulted in the end of our marriage, family, and ministry.
By God's grace and a lot of hard work, we restored our relationship and rebuilt our marriage.
Since 2012, we've helped hundreds of couples experience healing, renewed purpose, and love through the RefineUs Weekend.
We are pastors, authors, and marriage coaches. We co-authored the best-selling book Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn't Good Enough.
Justin recently authored the USA Today Best-Selling book Being Real > Being Perfect.
We created the RefineUs Weekend to help couples like you have the marriage God has in mind.
One Couple's Story:
"The RefineUs Weekend was what we refer to as the beginning of our restoration journey. This set us on a path to not only restore our marriage, but our relationship with God as well.
It was so impactful that we felt God leading me to step down from my pastoral role and launch Restoration Family Farm, which serves individuals, couples, and families in difficult seasons of life and walks with them through their own restoration journey.
I have a heart full of gratitude for what you and Trish did to help us find hope and healing. We would not be where we are if it weren’t for you investing in us and walking with us on our journey!"
- Jen & Rob
What You Will Experience
At the RefineUs Weekend
This event is small on purpose. We limit attendance so you can have personal time with Justin and Trisha.
It's okay to not be okay. You can come as you are and know you are welcome and you are not alone. This is a safe place.
This will not be marriage theory. We will give you practical, Biblical help that brings transformation to your marriage.
Time, conversation, and fun are built into the weekend. We won't be in a rush. You will have margin to connect with God and each other.
Get to Know the Hotel
This experience will be held at the Virgin Hotel in the heart of Music Square in Nashville, which is absolutely bursting with delicious food and exciting culture, all to be enjoyed in between our learning sessions.
Additionally, the hotel is just 15 minutes from the Nashville Airport, making it extremely accessible for our out-of-town participants.
7:00PM Session #1
8:30 PM Session #2
9:30AM Session #3
10:30AM Session #4
11:30AM Special Guest
12:00PM Lunch and Q&A
12:30PM Session #5
1:30PM Dismiss to date night
(Optional mini-photo sessions start at 1:30PM)
11:00 AM Dismiss
The Weekend Experience Includes
Ready to sign up?
Early Bird Special: The first 6 couples to register will receive a FREE 1-hour private coaching session with Justin and Trisha!
Please note: registration does NOT include airfare to and from Nashville.
What our participants have to say:
The weekend was incredible. The tools that you have provided are helping us deal with the hidden issues in our relationship, understand the importance of intimacy, connect spiritually, and navigate the wounds of our past. We appreciate your openness, dedication, and the tools that you are providing to help married couples to move their relationship to Beyond Ordinary.
- Chuck & Wendy
The RefineUs Weekend was better than we had even expected! It became a new foundation for our marriage and a springboard to push us further down the path of healing we needed. It was like a reset button that broke down pretenses through the raw and real testimonies and teachings shared. We are so thankful for this opportunity like none other!
- Matt & Bonnie
Justin & Trisha went above and beyond to make sure we felt welcome and comfortable. They spoke with honesty and vulnerability about their life, and the principles they shared with us gave us a deeper understanding of God's vision for our marriage. We were able to be "just as we are" and allow God to change our hearts. We left the weekend with a new hope for the future!
- Jim & Jen
This weekend is perfect for you if you want to:
- Replace loneliness & misunderstanding with connection & clarity
- Have conversations that bring life and lasting change
- Rebuild trust and move on from fear and insecurity
- Be on the same team with your spouse instead of opposing sides
- Find healing from the past so it doesn't affect your future
- Resolve conflict and experience forgiveness
- Experience authentic change in your marriage
We're ready for something different!
Frequently Asked Questions
What's included in registration?
What isn't included?
Will we have to share our story with others?
How frequently do you host these events?
Our marriage is in crisis... is this for us?
Our marriage is NOT in crisis... is this for us?
Will I get a refund if I need to cancel?
Can I transfer my registration to a friend?
It's time to rediscover God's vision for your marriage.
We will help you...
Identify obstacles keeping you from having the best marriage possible
Learn the impact of past experiences on your present struggles
Resolve conflict with compassion and understanding
Address ongoing resentment issues through forgiveness
Restore trust (yes, it's possible!)