Hey there! We are Justin and Trisha Davis. We help people and churches have healthy relationships. 

The existence of this ministry is the result of a victorious battle for our marriage and family. After successfully planting our first church in 2002, Justin had an affair with a staff member, who was also Trisha’s best friend.

What followed was a 4-year journey of pain, grief and ultimately the restoration of our relationship by the grace of God. This experience left a watermark on our marriage of what it really means to experience grace, love and redemption firsthand—both individually and as a couple

That experience didn’t just change our marriage—it changed us. It became a lens through which we see every relationship: with God, with each other, with ourselves.

In 2012, we founded what’s now RefineUs Ministries. We exist to help people experience transformation by building healthy, authentic relationships—whether you're healing from betrayal, breaking generational patterns, or simply tired of pretending everything's okay.

We're pastors, authors, and coaches that leverage our experience to help others discover deeper faith, emotional health, and practical strategies for growth. Through coaching, courses, conferences, and honest conversations, we walk with individuals, couples, and churches toward deeper connection and lasting change.

What began as our personal story has grown into a community of imperfect people pursuing healing and wholeness—not through performance, but through presence and honesty.

You don’t have to have it all together to be here.
You just have to be real.
We’ll walk with you as you take your next step.