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Hey there! We are Justin and Trisha Davis. Welcome to a place that we hope feels like home with people that feel like family. 

Our return to ministry is the result of a victorious battle for our marriage and family. After successfully planting our first church, Justin had an affair with a staff member, who was also Trisha’s best friend.

What followed was a 4-year journey of pain, grief and ultimately the restoration of our relationship by the grace of God. This experience left a watermark on our marriage of what it really means to experience grace, love and redemption firsthand‚ÄĒboth individually and as a couple

In 2012, we founded RefineUs, using our story of failure, loss, and transformation to guide others to discover renewed hope and purpose. 

We are authors, teachers, and pastors and coaches.  We create courses, marriage conferences and coach couples, individuals and churches to help relationships thrive. 

RefineUs has grown into community of imperfect and broken people finding healing and transformation through honesty and authenticity. We believe being real is more important than being perfect. 

You are welcome here. Our prayer is that we inspire you to take your next best relationship step. We'll be with you along the way. 


We both attended Lincoln Christian University in Lincoln, IL where we met and fell in love (with Justin adamantly asking Trisha out twice a week for 6 months before she said yes.)

Justin received his BA degree in Christian Education in Lincoln and Trisha later earned her degree from Indiana University.

We have five kids, a daughter-in-law and two dogs that have a co-dependent relationship with Trish. We live in Indianapolis, IN, a city that we love.    

With the rare free time that we can scrounge up, you will find us going on walks, eating at PF Changs, or having coffee together; and sometimes all three at once.

Our first book, Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Isn’t Good Enough from Tyndale House Publishers, is available now. You can order the book from a number of places today.

We are passionate about sharing all that God has done in our life, marriage and family. If you would like more information about booking us for your event, your church service or a conference, please check out our speaking page.

If you'd like to learn more, check out this video version of our story.