Hey there. We are Justin and Trish and we are honored you’ve checked out RefineUs Ministries. 

In 2012, we founded RefineUs, using our story of failure, loss, and transformation to guide others to discover renewed hope and purpose. 

We are authors, teachers, and pastors and coaches.  We create courses, marriage conferences and coach couples, individuals and churches to help relationships thrive. 

RefineUs is a community of imperfect and broken people finding healing and transformation through honesty and authenticity. We believe being real is more important than being perfect. 

Our mission is to help you restore hope and renew relationships because families thrive when relationships are healthy.

We pray this web site inspires you to take your next best relationship step. We'll be with you along the way. 

You are welcome here, 

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Download the First Two Chapter of our Book: Beyond Ordinary

When a Good Marriage Just Isn't Good Enough

We invest in families through online courses. These courses  meet you where you are, equip you to grow, and give you the tools to find transformation in your relationships. We offer a variety of on-demand courses for you to join today. 

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The purpose of RefineUs Coaching is to help you reach your fullest potential. Sometimes you need a little encouragement along the way.

This is a unique blend of counseling and coaching that creates a belief that you are not alone and you can find breakthrough. 

 The goal is to quickly identify where you are and how to move forward in a healthy way. 

Through this process with Justin and Trisha you'll get practical next steps to restore hope and renew purpose. 

More about Coaching

Twice a year we host a marriage intensive call the RefineUs Weekend Experience. It is a small, intimate gathering of couples in Indianapolis. For more info CLICK HERE.  

We also speak and do marriage conferences and retreats for churches all across the country. If you'd like more information about booking us for your men's, women's or marriage event, click the button below. 

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"Justin and Trisha share a story of pain, heartache and redemption. Our congregation identified with the depths of their pain and the hope that ultimately emerged. The weekend they shared in each of our weekend services was one of the highlights of the year."

Tim Stevens, Executive Pastor, Granger Community Church

"Their candid and sometimes gut-­wrenchingly painful testimony of a marriage that traveled the downward spiral of complacency, to indifference, to marital unfaithfulness held our congregation spellbound, and their story of repentance, restoration, and healing by the power of God’s love was riveting! Many who heard them were challenged to seek that same renewal and recommitment in their own marriages. The testimony was memorable and powerful.

We at Traders Point Christian Church affirm Justin and Trisha’s marriage ministry. We hope you will be as blessed by them as we have been."

-Aaron Brockett, Lead Pastor, Traders Point Christian Church

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