are you struggling with...


The same argument over and over again?

Bitterness and resentment from past hurts?

Lack of communication?

Emotional or spiritual disconnection?

Lack of sexual chemistry, interest or engagement?

Are you healing from pornography or infidelity? 


Are you ready to take a step toward connection, intimacy and a joyful marriage relationship? 


What if you could...

Identify the core issues in your marriage 

So often we try to fix the pain in our marriage without identifying the cause of the pain.

Find a safe place to be real and honest: 

Healing comes as we find grace and truth. Marriage coaching works best as each couple gets shares honestly. 

Learn from a couple that has been there: 

Justin and Trisha have walked through deep waters of brokenness, hurt, betrayal, forgiveness and restoration and can walk with you. 

Develop a plan to change:  

Coaching only works if you work a plan. We'll give you a plan to move beyond what is holding you back and check in on your progress. 


It's easy to fall in love; it's tough to stay in love.

We help couples rediscover God's vision for their marriage.   


When our marriage imploded due to infidelity in 2005, we did all kinds of counseling and read every book we could.

But what made the most significant difference was a married couple that had been through what we were going through and could guide us along the way. They helped us live out what we were learning in counseling.

Are you ready to overcome what's holding you back?

If the answer is yes, then take a few minutes to learn about RefineUs Marriage Coaching.

Yes, I'd like to schedule a Discovery Call

You had a vision for your marriage. Maybe these days, the dream you had and the reality you are living are worlds apart. We don't drift to a great marriage. We have to choose it. We will help you reclaim and rediscover that vision.

RefineUs Marriage Coaching meets you where you are, inspires you, and equips you to have something more....something extraordinary. The goal of our coaching program isn't to give you all the answers or fix you or your marriage.

Our goal is to come alongside you and your spouse and help you take the next step in your journey with Christ. 
Most couples don't need textbook answers; they need a partner in the journey.

In our twenty-seven years of marriage, we have learned that the journey looks different for everyone, but there are similar routes along the way.

Not ready to sign up? No problem. Book a FREE Discovery Call

Brian and Jenni Clayville


Justin and Trisha were incredible sources for my husband, Brian, and me when I confessed my affair at the beginning of 2009. In a time that we believed all was lost, Justin and Trisha helped us see hope in so many ways. Nothing feels more hopeless than navigating crisis in isolation. We were not meant to do life alone, and having others that had gone before us gave us flickers of light in a dark season. Today, our marriage is thriving and God continues to work miracles in our lives and the lives around us through our story. We are beyond grateful today that we get to call them our friends.

Josh and Lindsey Hartz


From our first mentoring session with Justin & Trisha through our friendship with them now so many years later, we’ve held to the truth they taught us and tangibly lived themselves day to day. We are FOR each other in our marriage, not against. Our marriage challenges resulted from a combination of unhealthy mindsets, unspoken needs, unrealistic expectations, the hurt we inflicted on one another, and an avalanche of trauma imposed on us individually and together. But that simple advice has kept us going, renewed a sense of fighting for one another’s best, and helped build our relationship into what was always there but buried by circumstance. True love, open honesty, and deep intimacy are built on the foundation of God. 

What makes RefineUs Coaching Different?


Meet online and from your own home. Each session will be over Zoom so location isn't an issue. 

This is a safe place to be honest about your issues. You will find a place to belong with Justin and Trish.  

Marriage Coaching includes Justin and Trisha.  You will get both Justin and Trisha's experience, input and perspective for whatever you are going through. 

Help is practical and immediate.  After the first session you will experience real help and a game plan for moving forward. 

Click below to request your free Coaching Call! 

Book Your FREE Coaching Call HERE
a note from Justin and Trisha
One of the things we've realized in 27 years of marriage is that God uses our deepest pain as the foundation of our greatest calling.
After the implosion and near end of our marriage due to sexual brokenness, infidelity, and addiction, we've been able to help thousands of couples find purpose, heal and rediscover God's vision for their marriage.
We'd love to go on that journey with you.
Our mission is to restore hope and renew purpose because families thrive when relationships grow! 
So if you need hope or renewal, our coaching program is designed for you.
We not only give you content but also walk with you on the path of restoration and rediscovery. Therefore, the best time to start coaching is now.
Let's get started!
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