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We help broken and hurting married couples get honest with themselves, rebuild trust, and create deeply connected marriages through Christ-centered support.

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Hey there. We are Justin & Trisha, founders of RefineUs Ministries.

This journey began in 2012, when we chose to use our personal story of failure, brokenness, and transformation to guide others to discover renewed hope and purpose in their marriages and beyond.

We are authors, teachers, and coaches with years of experience supporting couples and individuals seeking hope and healing through honesty and authenticity. We believe being real is more important than being perfect. 

Our mission is to help you get honest, rebuild trust, and create connection in your most valued relationships.

Ready to step into healing in your own life? We have many ways to support you. We can't wait to get to know you!

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Learn the 8 things that nearly destroyed our marriage and make a plan to avoid them at all costs.

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We believe coaching has a unique power to transform your life, and your relationships.

Different than traditional counseling, the purpose of RefineUs coaching is to help you reach your fullest potential. This creates a belief that you are not alone and you can find breakthrough. 

We help you quickly identify where you are and how to move forward in a healthy way. 

Through this process with us, you'll get practical next steps to restore hope and renew purpose.

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Free Wisdom

Tune in to our free podcast and hear us both discuss all things love, marriage, leadership, and life in general!

We are all about sharing the regular messiness of life, so come pull up a chair and join us on the journey to authenticity.

New episodes released every few weeks!

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Ongoing Mentorship

We know it takes consistent intention and effort to keep a marriage passionate, close, and connected.

Our marriage membership, called Marriage 24/7, is an online community filled with resources, personal support, and ongoing community with couples around the country who desire an intimate marriage just like you.

Join us and watch your everyday connection transform!

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Retreats & Speaking

Twice a year we host The RefineUs Weekend, which is a small, intimate gathering of couples in Indianapolis where we learn and grow together in person.

We also speak at and host marriage conferences for churches all across the country. We'd love to chat with you about speaking at your church event!

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"You are not what has happened to you. You are a child of God."

- Justin Davis