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We help broken and hurting married couples get honest with themselves, rebuild trust, and create deeply connected marriages through Christ-centered support.

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 It's easy to fall in love, but it's tough to stay in love.


All marriages begin with good intentions, but we know firsthand how easy it is for those intentions to fall by the wayside when life happens.


If you are struggling in your marriage with the same disappointments over and over again, you've landed in the right place. Here at RefineUs, we offer hope, healing, and restoration for even the most tired, distant, broken circumstances.


We can help you take your marriage from ordinary to the extraordinary relationship you've always longed for.

Hey there, we are Justin & Trisha, founders of RefineUs Ministries.

This journey began in the depths of our own sin and sorrow, when Justin had an affair ten years into our marriage.

After doing a ton of personal and relational work, and by God's incredible grace, we restored our marriage and learned what it takes to truly heal what was broken inside us.

Armed with this new wisdom, we founded RefineUs Ministries in 2012, determined to help other couples strengthen their marriages and restore the broken parts of their own stories.

We are authors, teachers, and coaches with years of experience supporting couples and individuals seeking hope and healing through honesty and authenticity.

Our mission is to help you get honest, rebuild trust, and create connection in your most valued relationships.

Ready to step into healing in your own life? We can't wait to get to know you!

You are welcome here, 

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It's not about having it all together - it's about admitting when you need help.


Here's what you'll hear us say over and over again: 


God-glorifying marriages are made of two authentic, honest, broken people committed to deeply following Jesus.


We've seen hundreds of couples over the years at the breaking point in their relationships. Perhaps that's where you find yourself today.


But take heart - there is always hope when both spouses choose to be honest about sin and walk forward with trust and forgiveness.

We help couples in 3 main ways: 


ONE: Coaching
(individual & couples' coaching)


TWO: Marriage Resources
(email devotionals, books, free resources, our podcast, and more!)


THREE: Marriage Retreats
(we call them RefineUs weekends)

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Learn the 8 things that nearly destroyed our marriage and make a plan to avoid them at all costs.

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Get One on One Help

If you're looking for individualized support for yourself or your marriage, look no further than coaching with RefineUs.

Different than traditional counseling, the purpose of coaching is to help you reach your fullest potential. This creates a belief that you are not alone and you can find breakthrough.

We help you quickly identify where you are and how to move forward in a healthy way. 

Through this process with us, you'll get practical next steps to restore hope and renew purpose.

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Get Weekly Wisdom

If you're seeking ongoing encouragement in your marriage amidst a busy lifestyle, our MentorUs resource is perfect for you!

We know it takes consistent intention and effort to keep a marriage passionate, close, and connected. We also know it's hard to make time for consistent connection. We can help! In this weekly email-based resource, we send you:

  • A story-based devotional
  • Scripture to read together
  • Thoughtful discussion questions
  • Monthly video content
  • Plus,¬†additional bonus resources!
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Get Restored

Need to hit the reset button for yourself, or for your relationship? Join us for a weekend of marriage restoration this fall in Nashville Tennessee!

The RefineUs Weekend can help you rediscover your heart for God, grow your love for your spouse, and recapture the vision for your marriage.

This curated weekend experience will feature fresh and practical marriage teaching, rich interaction with us (Justin & Trisha), and transformative discussions with your spouse.

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Learn With Us

Tune in to our free podcast and hear us both discuss all things love, marriage, leadership, and life in general!

We are all about sharing the regular messiness of life, so come pull up a chair and join us on the journey to authenticity.

New episodes released every few weeks!

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"You are not what has happened to you. You are a child of God."

- Justin Davis