Why It Isn't Working

If you’ve been married for any amount of time you probably have your list. There is a mental list that you accumulate and depending on the argument; depending on the hurt; depending on the harsh word that was spoken; it is a that continues to get longer and longer. It’s the list of all the reasons why your marriage isn’t working. All the reasons that the marriage you have isn’t the one you signed up for. You know that list?

-Why should you try, when your spouse won’t change?

-He doesn’t listen to anything you say

-She won’t get off of your back no matter how much effort you give

-He’s never home on time and when he is home he isn’t happy

-The lady at work seems to dig you more than your own wife

-All he ever thinks about is sex

-Every time you try to talk, it ends up in an argument

-Your boss believes in you more than your husband does

-You live in the same house but you are seldom on the same team

-She’s always keeping score and holding a grudge

-He takes you for granted and you constantly feel unapprecaited

-The romance is gone

-He’s never happy with how you spend the money

When we get married, we don’t intend to make a list. Our marriage is going to be different. We’ll be the ones that stay in love. We’ll not drift apart like other couples. Then life and careers and kids and finances and job changes and circumstances come against us day after day, week after week, year after year. We don’t intend to have a mediocre marriage it just kinda happens.

What if there was someone that could show you why it can work? What if there was a path you could take that wouldn’t solve all of your marital problems, but would give you direction on how to navigate them?